Just the other day I wrote about the hit my garden took this year as a result of an unusually harsh winter. As spring progressed, I watched a number of particularly beaten plants closely for signs of life or recovery. As April turned to May and the time for recovery was well passed its due date I discovered that I had begun avoiding making the final call on specific plant. I had formed attachments that I didn’t even know I had.
Loss is a normal and common occurrence in the life of any garden, regardless of the care or expertise of its gardener. Yesterday as I dug up the dead plants and committed their lifeless bodies to the compost bin, I thought a lot about how in its own small way, gardening can serve as a gentler preparation or practice ground for exponentially bigger losses that are an inevitable part of being alive.
Grow Write Guild Prompt #27: Write on the themes of loss, attachment, and/or letting go.
We’ve had the same thing going on here. *sigh*
Looks like this will be a “rebuilding” year for the garden.
Thanks for prompting this. I wasn’t going to post anything on my blog about my tomato tragedy, because I didn’t want to sound whiny, but the point is to share our stories, the good and the bad, right? Although after listening to your podcast with Mr. Brown Thumb I don’t think I can call this a tragedy compared to having kids who had been shot at in your yard, and having to wonder if any stray bullets could hit you yourself.
http://rabbitsandradishes.blogspot.com/2014/05/grow-write-guild-27-loss-and-letting-go.html
Great post Evangeline! It’s so hard to lose starts and I can definitely relate. This week was a tough one, but I think it’s a great topic. Thanks for getting us writing Gayla. My post ended up being primarily text, but definitely brought up some feelings that I have about gardening “success”.
http://blackberryburrow.com/?p=929
Good prompt. It got me to think about some things I hadn’t really processed completely and I’m sure it’s a concept that all gardeners can relate to. http://shadycharacter.wordpress.com/2014/05/22/precious-gold/